Okay, basically guys are really easy to understand. Girls just complicate the shit out of things. There are exceptions, of course, but here is how a guy basically works. He wants something appealing to the eye, everyone does, but it really isn’t all about that (if it is then the guy isn’t even worth your time). He doesn’t want drama, so therefore he’s usually going to go for a girl he can be himself around and someone he’s known for a while. He likes a girl with a good sense of humor/ that can make him laugh and be happy. He likes a girl who is smart, someone who thinks differently than him and can give him a bit of a challenge. Guys like a good challenge. You know the phrase playing hard to get? It works. Be really good friends with him one day, be all cute and flirt a little bit the next day, then don’t give him any attention the next day. Mix it up, don’t make it easy for him at all. Guys like that. Make him jealous some days, talk about the new guy you like or you’re considering liking. Then the next day don’t talk about him at all and compliment then guy you’re with and make him feel special. This will keep him up at night wondering what the fuck is going on and who you like. The more he thinks about you, the more he’s getting hooked. Don’t text him all the time. Reply to his texts sometimes, other days don’t reply at all. Surprise him and text him first. Once he tells you he likes you, the game isn’t over yet. You have to still keep him fighting for you or else the thrill of the chase will be gone and he will begin to get bored. Keep it up until things start getting serious. If you ever get in a fight, the best thing to do is ignore him at first. This will put you in control and the guy will respect you a lot more and he will listen to every word you say during the argument/ discussion. Take control, guys like that. Ever heard the song “Miss Independent” by Neyo? Go ahead and listen to it. Not once does he say that he likes her because she complains about her not texting him or complains about her homework being too hard or nags about him being gone for a little bit too long or crying cause she doesn’t get enough attention, nothing of the sort. He likes her because she does her own thing, he has to go out of his way to talk to her, she knows what she wants and that’s sexy to guys, independence is sexy because then guys don’t feel obligated to buy you things or to be with you, they want to buy you things and they feel lucky when they finally do get to be with you. It really is simple as long as you aren’t needy or dramatic. Guys do not like drama. Do not start screaming about some shit that honestly doesn’t matter. Don’t go telling him all the little gossip you just heard and about how fat and ugly another girl is. Cause you know what? That just makes you look bad, not her. So get your head on straight, know that you are important and fall in love. Let the guy show you how much he cares and allow yourself to fall in love with him. Go out and have a good time with him and laugh so much your stomach hurts and you have tears in your eyes. After all this, you’ll be able to look him in the eyes and know that he loves you and you won’t have to be afraid of him hurting you, because he’s just as in love with you as you are with him. So don’t be a little twat and you have to at least try to look cute/ appealing (and no that does not mean have your boobs all hanging out and your jeans 3 sizes too small. i mean that you should attempt at looking cute. CUTE not SLUTTY! like lauren conrad or jennifer anniston’s style) do your own thing and guys will honestly like you so much more. and never say “ily”
okay i hope this helped a little bit and maybe you learned something and maybe not hahahahhahaa i hope i answered your question <3